by Michael Webb, Founder – VirtuosoLover.com
Why do parents, teachers and older siblings preach so much about never telling a lie. But what do they do? Exactly the opposite when faced with questions from the children about why Sarah sits down when she pees and junior gets to pee standing up.
The lamest explanation I ever came across with that one parent came up with is “because Sarah is a princess and her pretty dress would get wet if she pees standing up and you are a Prince and you will be king someday so you have to show them that you don’t have to sit down because it would show you are weak”.
Is this fair? To lie about the truth and eventually retract your statement when they are ready? When is the right time to teach children about these things? Is there really a right time?
Ever seen Kindergarten Cop when this young boy kept blurting out “boys have a penis, girls have a vagina”? It’s hilarious but after the movie you couldn’t help but ask if this is the time to expose this boy to the truth about the reproductive difference. It’s far better than the birds and bees.
I believe this kid would hate his parents less for telling the truth to him even at a very early phase of his life instead of sheltering him too much. He could even end up the president of a country for all you know.
Boys don’t mind playing with girls in pre-school. When they reach the age of 7 onwards, they begin to be interested in the opposite sex in a different manner. For instance when he sees Lisa smiling when she looks at him, he all of a sudden looks away, then it clearly is an indication that you are slowly approaching the age of enlightenment.
Even as they reach their teen years, parents leave their sex education to their teachers, magazines and porn videos that they gain access to by innocently going through their siblings’ stuff and getting creamed for it when caught.
“The best way to learn is through experience, which is, making mistakes and learning from them”. I think this is BS and exactly why there is an increasing rate of juvenile delinquents.
A clear example is when a boy knocks up a girl at a younger age than acceptable to the norms of society. Parents would react about the freakin’ news by getting hysterical and would blame them for being disobedient, too wild and too radical.
Oh Puhlease. Spare them from the dagger looks and the hefty lectures. It’s to late for that so deal with it. This is by far the outcome of the birds the bees and allowing them to learn from textbook sex education.
Quit lying, kids are smarter nowadays. Why wait for them to commit their own mistakes to learn from? Talk to them –they don’t bite. Sheltering them from the truth about life would cause more damage than good.
About the author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of “The Virtuoso Lover”, teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make ‘out-of-this-world’ love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: The Virtuoso Lover.
