by Michael Webb, Founder – VirtuosoLover.com
Ladies put a lot of stock in a kiss. The way you kiss her can make her feelings for you or break them. An iffy attraction can be made stronger with a passionate kiss, or a woman can lose all attraction for you if the kiss is lame. Here are some tips to help you get a good reaction.
The necessity for setting a mood varies with the circumstance. If you’ve been together for a long time and you’re just sneaking a peck in the kitchen you don’t need to go to any great romantic lengths. But, if it’s a first kiss, or a kiss that you’re hoping with lead to more physical activity, you need some kind of lead in.
It doesn’t have to involve scented candles and Barry White, but you also don’t want to catch her off guard. It can be as simple as looking into her eyes. Also, make some sort of preliminary physical contact, lightly stroke her cheek or push the hair out of her face. Whatever it is, make it a loving gesture.
Nothing kills a romantic mood like a stiff lipped kiss. It causes the kiss to feel awkward and it interrupts the feeling of intimacy you’ve set. If the kiss feels awkward then you feel awkward to her. Worse yet, awkward equals insecure. You’ll be hard pressed to find a woman who wants a man who is so uncomfortable with himself he can’t even enjoy a kiss. She wouldn’t be allowing your lips on hers if she thought you were some schlep, so don’t do anything to convince her otherwise.
Limp lips lack strength, and you don’t want to look weak. I know, I know, where’s the fine line? A good indication is the drool. There should be enough tension to keep the spit in your mouth. She should not be drowning in your saliva! If you keep your eyes closed and allow yourself to experience the kiss, you should be able to gage the tension.
The number one way to look like an amateur is to lead with the tongue. She wants to kiss you, not taste your dinner. It’s also too overtly sexual. When you’re getting hot and heavy, you can certainly enjoy some tonsil hockey, but immediate tongue action will make her feel objectified. Not that you have to keep it completely recoiled, a few quick licks of her parted lips will give her a thrill.
Putting your lips on a woman that you find sexually attractive gets you hot. You’re a man; it’s not difficult to get you aroused. However, if you start grabbing boobs and rubbing a hard penis on her leg, you’ll be going home with your right hand tonight.
About the author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of “The Virtuoso Lover”, teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make ‘out-of-this-world’ love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting: The Virtuoso Lover.
