Tis the season to be sexy! If you are having a hard time deciding what to get your partner for Christmas, consider purchasing a gift that will make her feel sexy and steam up those cold winter nights. Purchasing a sexy Christmas gift is a great way to say, “I love and desire you.” Although your partner will not be able to open this gift in front of family and friends, it will most definitely be a memorable and enjoyable gift for you and your partner. Listed below are the top five sexy Christmas gifts for her:
1. Hot massage oil: If you want to know how to make a girl happy, wrap up a luxurious hot massage oil with a “gift certificate” for a massage from you. Giving your partner a conventional or sensual massage is both sexy and relaxing for her. She will appreciate your willingness to please her and will be happy to return the favor.
2. Kama Sutra set: Kama Sutra is an ancient Hindu text about human sexual behavior, and it contains practical sexual advice. A Kama Sutra set can typically be purchased online and includes a text of positions, massage oil, honey dust with feather applicator and a pleasure balm. The included text also explains how to use the oil, dust and balm to pleasure your partner.
3. Handheld massager: A small, personal handheld massager has multiple purposes for both relaxation and pleasure. If your partner does not seem comfortable with the idea of a “sex toy,” a small handheld massager may be the way to introduce the idea.
4. Candle set for the bedroom: Purchasing a set of candles and candleholders to decorate the bedroom is a tasteful and subtle way to set the mood. Give this gift with a small card that cleverly explains the intended use of the candles. “Light my fire,” is a great example.
5. Silk sheets and linen spray: Another great way to set the mood in the bedroom is with silk sheets and a sultry-smelling linen spray. As with the candle set gift, include a card that subtly explains the intended use of this gift.
Happy Holidays to all!
Lindsey Webster has been a rehabilitation counselor for 15 years and also owns the site Masters in Counseling. She likes to write about different topics related to counseling and careers.

